Category: Self-Improvement

He hath a stronger body, and is a better wrestler than I.

What then? Is he more bountiful? Is he more modest?

Doth he bear all adverse chances with more equanimity: or with his neighbor’s offences with more meekness and gentleness than I?

It is a princely thing to do well, and to be ill-spoken of.

It is a shameful thing that the face should be subject unto the mind, to be put into what shape it will, and to be dressed by it as it will;

And that the mind should not bestow so much care upon herself, as to fashion herself, and to dress herself as best becometh her.

All things (saith he) are by certain order and appointment. And what if the elements only.

It will suffice to remember, that all things in general are by certain order and appointment: or if it be but few.

And as concerning death, that either dispersion, or the atoms, or annihilation, or extinction, or translation will ensue.

And as concerning pain, that which is intolerable is soon ended by death;

And that which holds long must needs be tolerable;

And that the mind in the meantime (which is all in all) may by way of interclusion, or interception, by stopping all manner of commerce and sympathy with the body, still retain its own tranquility.

Thy understanding is not made worse by it. As for those parts that suffer, let them, if they can, declare their grief themselves.

As for praise and commendation, view their mind and understanding, what estate they are in; what kind of things they fly, and what things they seek after:

And that as in the seaside, whatsoever was before to be seen, is by the continual succession of new heaps of sand cast up one upon another, soon hid and covered; so in this life, all former things by those which immediately succeed.

Fancy not to thyself things future, as though they were present but of those that are present,

take some aside, that thou takest most benefit of, and consider of them particularly, how wonderfully thou wouldst want them, if they were not present.

But take heed withal, lest that whilst thou dust settle thy contentment in things present, thou grow in time so to overprize them, as that the want of them (whensoever it shall so fall out) should be a trouble and a vexation unto thee.

Wind up thyself into thyself.

Such is the nature of thy reasonable commanding part, as that if it exercise justice, and have by that means tranquility within itself, it doth rest fully satisfied with itself without any other thing.

Is any man so foolish as to fear change, to which all things that once were not owe their being? And what is it, that is more pleasing and more familiar to the nature of the universe?

How couldst thou thyself use thy ordinary hot baths, should not the wood that heateth them first be changed?

How couldst thou receive any nourishment from those things that thou hast eaten, if they should not be changed?

Can anything else almost (that is useful and profitable) be brought to pass without change?

How then dost not thou perceive, that for thee also, by death, to come to change, is a thing of the very same nature, and as necessary for the nature of the universe?

Of things that are external, happen what will to that which can suffer by external accidents. Those things that suffer let them complain themselves, if they will;

As for me, as long as I conceive no such thing, that that which is happened is evil, I have no hurt; and it is in my power not to conceive any such thing.

Whatsoever any man either doth or saith, thou must be good; not for any man’s sake, but for thine own nature’s sake; as if either gold, or the emerald, or purple, should ever be saying to themselves, whatsoever any man either doth or saith, I must still be an emerald, and I must keep my colour.

Let not things future trouble thee. For if necessity so require that they come to pass, thou shalt (whensoever that is) be provided for them with the same reason, by which whatsoever is now present, is made both tolerable and acceptable unto thee.

All things are linked and knitted together, and the knot is sacred, neither is there anything in the world, that is not kind and natural in regard of any other thing, or, that hath not some kind of reference and natural correspondence with whatsoever is in the world besides.

For all things are ranked together, and by that decency of its due place and order that each particular doth observe, they all concur together to the making of one and the same [“Kosmos” ed] or world: as if you said, a comely piece, or an orderly composition.

For all things throughout, there is but one and the same order; and through all things, one and the same God, the same substance and the same law.

There is one common reason, and one common truth, that belongs unto all reasonable creatures, for neither is there save one perfection of all creatures that are of the same kind, and partakers of the same reason.

What fear is there that thy dogmata, or philosophical resolutions and conclusions, should become dead in thee, and lose their proper power and efficacy to make thee live happy, as long as those proper and correlative fancies, and representations of things on which they mutually depend (which continually to stir up and revive is in thy power,) are still kept fresh and alive?

It is in my power concerning this thing that is happened, what soever it be, to conceit that which is right and true. If it be, why then am I troubled?

Those things that are without my understanding, are nothing to it at all: and that is it only, which doth properly concern me.

Be always in this mind, and thou wilt be right.

Use thyself when any man speaks unto thee, so to hearken unto him, as that in the interim thou give not way to any other thoughts; that so thou mayst (as far as is possible) seem fixed and fastened to his very soul, whosoever he be that speaks unto thee.